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Posted on 12/31/2009

Ever wonder why most women get turned off by a man and decide to stay single? Well, the RAW truth is that most women will come to that decision if:

1. 75% of your vocabulary is limited to cuss, degrading and or demeaning words. Consider taking a vocabulary course.

2. You are looking for someone to clean your house, cook your meals and do your laundry. Call your mom or hire a maid.

3. You do not know the true meaning of partnership, compassion, passion, romanticism, honesty, trust, individuality, respect, consideration, dependability, liar, cheater, player, friendship, deceiver and accountability. Pick up a dictionary or go to counseling.

4. You are looking for someone to share your world but you have no interest in sharing theirs. Buy a dog.

5. You are arrogant, a alcoholic, drug user, self centered, closed minded, a introvert, home body, out of shape, have no drive, depth, goals or direction in life, have baby mama or ex-wife/girlfriend drama. Do yourself and the next person a HUGE favor, take a personal journey and self evaluate your life before getting involved with anyone.

6. You can not carry on an intelligent or casual conversation. Take a communications course.

7. You are their height or shorter. Most women like to wear heels when they go out so, would like to be the same height as their partner.

8. You don't enjoy just being alive and living life. Occasionally look in the obituaries. You might find yourself there.

9. You can not partake in the everyday responsibilities of being in a relationship. Seek advice from a relationship expert.

10. You are fake, put on a front and wear different masks. Take a course to learn who you really are.

11. You are looking for just sex. Buy a blow up doll or hire a prostitute. A woman should not be your personal play toy because the wrath of a woman scorned buy such, is more furious than being in hell.

12. You are looking for Miss. Barbie Doll and not a real women. Try looking in the toy section in Wal-Mart. You can find Miss. Barbie Doll there.



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Posted on 08/17/2010

Happy to say she does not speak for me. I stay single for reasons differ than posted above. First, I wanted to take a break after my divorce and focus more on myself; while my ex husband was abusive; it was clear that we were not on the same page and he really didn't want to be married. If he did, his actions showed otherwise. I also wanted to reevaluate myself and what I wanted and really need in my life and make whatever changes I need to make in and for myself. There is nothing like anger to keep a woman single...and alone...



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Posted on 04/16/2010

Well I'm not going to be so pretentious as to claim that I speak for most men. But after being happily single for 20 years, I'd like to just suggest that someone who is so focused as to sit down and make a list of potential shortcomings of potential partners without any hint that she has ever considered examining herself in the interest of becoming a better partner for the sake of someone she might someday be with, appears to me to be extremely suspect.

Reading down your list conjures images of you standing beside a future "man" of yours with your list of "commandments" in one hand and some sort of castration device in the other.

To refer back to my first sentence, I have only one entry on my list of why I've remained single:

1. Angry, demanding, never-happy white women like you.

Personally, I strive to treat all people with respect, kindness, consideration, and compassion whether I am in a relationship with them or not, and I certainly have never needed a maid. I would have never dreamed of writing a list like yours in reference to women.

I am single but when I look in the mirror I at least see a man,
and as long as I'm not with someone like you that won't change.

Good day!



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Posted on 03/19/2010

Nicely said!!!



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Posted on 03/17/2010

Wow very enlighting! Good to know that someone still has time to review the statisics on this topic.



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Posted on 02/27/2010

I totally agree with most of these.  Thanks for the laugh! :-)



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Posted on 01/30/2010

Rogue I have got to say that you have hit the nail on the head. Its painful, but it's true. I have friends that have been single for years and will always point the finger at women and not themselves.
Relationships are like a plant that needs constant watering and daylight. In relationships we must never take our eye off the ball. We must always look to improve ourselves and in turn our relationships



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Posted on 01/12/2010

THANK YOU for that, the sad truth is most people (man and woman) have fake standards to begin with, so your points are right on the money and something real people have known all along, kodos to you for your insight.



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Posted on 01/05/2010

Funny



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Posted on 01/04/2010

Quoting misprettycat:

Yes Rogue its sad, but true.
I do agree all of those things are turn offs and i personally wouid never consider being with someone like that, who wouid and why the tortue?


torture



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Posted on 01/04/2010

Yes Rogue its sad, but true.
I do agree all of those things are turn offs and i personally wouid never consider being with someone like that, who wouid and why the tortue?


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Posted on 01/03/2010

For me it had nothing to do with the men in my life. They were great and still are. I didn't accept their proposals because I just didn't want to be married. That's all...



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Posted on 01/02/2010

Sounds like you had a bad experiance or two



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Posted on 01/01/2010

amen sista!



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Posted on 12/31/2009

Rogue!
I read your list of why women stay single. I understand that the female g-nome has been sequenced. As a result of the sequencing of female genetic map and the genetic map of us males, it appears that women are extremely more complex than the genetic stuff of us males.
I believe that most women are probably thinking "Any one of us women could have saved the researchers a lot of time. We've known for a long time that we are more complex, deeper, full of more substance than most men!"
Lastly, Rogue, I know of nothing in evolution that shows that the complex comes from the simple. Because of this, I suspect that rather than Eve coming from the rib of Adam it is the reverse! I believe that the story of the creation of Humans as told in the Bible is totally the opposite. We men wrote the Bible, and probably from at least the beginning of the Bible, we tried to make sure that the world believe that we men were first.
Best of Success for You,
EUbermensch



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